Why be so eager to please? This ISFP’s natural inclination to avoid conflict in order to maintain harmony is making me give in to requests that sometimes I may not agree or feel fully 100% supportive about. I’ll just think of trying to meet in the middle and ‘give it a shot first’ even when I know that it’s not going to work well.
Turns out to be a waste of time for me, and sometimes, others too.
Next time, if I’m not confident of putting in my best, or I simply do not agree, I must have the courage to say ‘no thank you’, or ‘it’s fine’. Unless I’m like “hell yes! let’s do it!!!1 NAO!”